Don’t Do This Alone!
Someone to help you through this hard time that is not out to break your bank!
Why Do I Care So Much?
People I love have been in these abusive relationships. They have been shot at, driven over, poisoned, their pets mistreated or killed, forced into bankruptcy, lied to, hundreds of thousands of dollars stolen from them, and that is the short list.
I have picked them up from the hospital, from the jail, or from their broken stressed homes. I have cried with them and for them. I have spent many a night just praying for them.
That’s not to mention the broken hand, separated ribs, and dislocated leg I endured in the fights in my marriage.
No one deserves this kind of life and NO ONE, should go through this alone!
I will be STRONG for you and WITH YOU!
My Wish For You!
Like I said, no one should have to live this kind of life! There is also no reason to live this way when I can help you get out of this kind of life and help you as you divorce and re-build your life.
I have the knowledge and tools that can help you as you start this process or if you are in the middle of this process I can help you through finding the right lawyer, as they are not one size fits all. I can help you organize your financials, and put your disclosures together.
I understand the challenges people face when leaving these relationships. I have worked as a jailer, private investigator, paper investigator and taught self-defense
I Value Choices!
Having your own choices are very important in everyones life. When you are in an abusive relationship whether that abuse if physical, financial, legal, mental, emotional, religious or any other type of abuse, your ability to make your own choices are difficult, even if you trust your choice. Most people in this type of relationship do not trust their own choices. Yet, having YOUR OWN choices are critical as you move forward in your life.
I am here to help you make your own choices and to trust your choices.
I will help you put your thoughts back together so you are strong enough to make all the best possible choices for your personal circumstances. No one should do this alone!
If I can come out of the ashes and feel strong and capable so can YOU!
What Makes Me The Person For Your Divorce?
First, I have been where you are. I was told I was not smart enough or capable enough to be and EMT, a Fire Fighter, a High Angel Rescue Personnel. Not capable of taking the job of jailer, or owning my own business at age 13.
I was molested as a child and became a 5th Degree Black Belt, fighting professionally in Europe, I even beat one of the guys that tried to black male me into sex with him. I used that “defeat” to help me become strong and very capable!
I have been a mentor for over 30 years and a CTA Certified Life coach for over 13 years. I am also a trained and Certified CDC Divorce and CDC Transition & Recovery Coach. I continue to train and study every day in the High Conflict Divorce arena so that I am capable of helping YOU.
If I don’t have what it takes, I’ll find it. You are my focus! If I can’t give you what I feel you need I WILL find someone who can!
“For me, the most important thing was the emotional support and guidance.”
“When Tina asked me to write a testimonial I was honored as it would give me a chance to express in words other then, “ Thank you” how much she has assisted me in navigating such a negative time in my life.”
“My husband and I finally made it to the last thread in our marriage and were ready to cut that. I had expressed how confusing this was and Tina mentioned there are divorce coaches. She explained what a divorce coach was and how it was a great option through this process. At that time, I had not realized how much impact the financial and emotional toll would be and she became my Divorce Coach.
“For me the most important thing was the emotional support and guidance because my whole life I usually ran from problems. She was able to guide me on where to start and assist me in creating a reasonable plan that was not rushed. We would set a goal and she would call after to check in on how things were going and helped me stay on track. This was so important as I tend to stray and not put my needs first, and this was important to keep my children and myself safe.
“When divorce was first thrown into my marriage I did not know where to start. I looked at lawyers assumed I would just have to give in to what my Husband wanted and lose everything. She helped me realize there are resources available to prevent this from happening while also being safe during this process. I was not sure If I wanted to go through with a divorce and we created a plan for all options. With the resources she had she was able to inform me of other coaches and services that are available as well, not only to myself but my family. Some of those were classes on how to parent through a divorce and how to inform my children and support them through the process. Once again, I thought I would not be able to pay for these services and she was able to find classes that were reasonably priced and worked with my crazy schedule. Through the process, so far, I have saved thousands of dollars versus me trying to navigate this whole thing on my own.
“This has set my family to succeed whether we chose to stay in our marriage or decide to take that last step. It has set our children up to see that divorce can be healthy and hopefully change their views of what it could have been. My family is now in counselling and we are currently taking little steps in trying to fix our marriage and not rush into divorce. We now know there are options and we will not just be stuck due to financial circumstances. I am following through with our plan and have started recommended Tina to coworkers going through similar obstacles and to no surprise they did not know a Divorce Coach was an option. Tina stepped in during such a negative time in my life and gave me confidence knowing there are options allowing me to continue through my day without so many things pilling up on my shoulders. I will forever be grateful.”